Solvates cations extremely well
therefore: increases nucleophilicity of anions
Solvates anions well because it is good at hydrogen bonding
therefore: decreases nucleophilicity of anions
table.
For example:

Aprotic
Solvents
Solvents
table.
e.g. Carbon anions are better nucleophiles than Oxygen anions
3. The more concentrated the charge the better the nucleophile
Anything that spreads out charge stabilizes the anion and therefore is a better
The bigger the atom, the more polarizable, therefore more stable ----> better
leaving group